Finally, it took motherhood to snap me out of my taking-everything-personal attitude. The first time friends and family tried to criticize me for my parenting decisions, I questioned everything. I felt bad that everyone didn't agree with me. But, in this growing process, I have come to several conclusions:
- Don't Let Anyone Else Determine Your Self Worth
- You are fearfully and wonderfully made. God said that. And, He tells the truth. People are not always nice, so it's impossible to live a joyful life when you're constantly riding that roller coaster of gaining approval from others.
- You Can't Please Everyone All The Time
- I'm in this thing to please God, and take care of my family. If I am doing that, and others do not agree with me, I can be confident that I am still doing the right thing for us. There was a time when I would try to justify every move I made, to lessen some criticism from others, but now I understand that doing what's right and best for my family might not be the most popular.
- Life is Too Short to Be Petty
- I wish I had learned this earlier. I wasted so many hours worrying about what other people thought of me that I care to think about. I would rather spend my days thinking about how to bless others and how to best serve my family than I would being tossed about by seeking to please those around me.
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